Christmas Angel Wall 2020

Today it is my little Rae Anne's EDD. It has been 6 years since I was so excited for this date, for my little surprise rainbow baby to be born. It was not to be again. She was my 4th angel baby, 3rd miscarried baby. It has now been over 6 years since I was able to get pregnant, she was my last pregnancy, my last hope of ever having a rainbow baby. I always get to this date and notice my empty arms a little bit more--it is hard! I wish things were different. I am grateful that I started a tradition on her angel dates that is just unique to her and helps my grieving heart each year. That tradition is to set up what used to be the Christmas Angel Tree on her EDD and set up the Easter Angel Tree on her Angel B-day in March.

So my friends here is the new Christmas Angel Wall to remember all your Angel Babies this Christmas. Your precious Angel Babies are Loved, Missed, and Remembered this Christmas. 💗💗💗💗

CHRISTMAS ANGEL HAT WALL

November Angel Birthdays

Happy Angel Birthday

to All Angel Children celebrating

birthdays in the month of November!

YOU ARE LOVED!

YOU ARE MISSED!  

YOU ARE REMEMBERED!

Janessa's Roses

 In 2010 we had a warmer fall so by the end of October I still had roses blooming.  For me it was a tender mercy because it brought me such joy to see those roses in the start of the winter months and during my intense grief as the holidays started up that first year after Janessa died.  I took a picture of one of the roses and named it Janessa's rose.

Janessa's Rose

2010

Ever since then I have either not paid attention or there really has not been roses in my garden in October for the past 10 years.  This year my roses stopped blooming at the end of July and I was surprised in September when they started blooming again.  I was so happy to see 3 roses all together and another yellow rose all blooming in October.  It again was a tender mercy to me for her 10th Angel year especially this year where life has been tipped upside down and gone literally down the toilet.  It was like a gift from Janessa, Hope, Jason, and Rae Anne saying they are here watching over us.

My 2020 Rose Garden in September

Janessa/Hope/Jason/Rae Anne's

Roses

2020

Halloween at the cemetery for the past 10 years

 We went and visited Janessa's grave and decorated for Halloween. I've had fun these past 8 years creating little "costumes" for her headstone. It's given me a way to include her in the holidays and helped me to mother her. The first 2 years I decorated her grave, but, didn't feel comfortable taking pictures of her grave--like it was some horrible thing to do, so I have no pictures of her grave except on her angel birthdays and Christmas.

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This year I forgot to bring my phone with me and had to borrow my husbands phone to take pictures. This years costume theme was unicorns and I was delighted to find colorful fake flowers to surround her grave and different colored real rose petals from my roses to put on her headstone. It all looked so colorful and bright and brought me a moment of joy.